90 Days for the Cookie Rule is Old & Tired!

So its been said to wait 3 months or 90 days before giving up the goodies. Excuse me as I sneeze from the dust off this old age rule. As always rules are meant to be broken and I’m here to pass along some guidelines. Waiting 3 months or 90 days isn’t going to keep no man committed to you. It’s really all about how you keep his interest. At the end of the day he can get sex from anywhere. Let’s be serious for just a quick second. We all know sex isn’t hard to get nowadays because there’s always another chick ready to pop a squat right on it. What you really want him to do is only want it from you. This also doesn’t mean to hand it over on silver platter after the first date either. In my book that’s a HELL NO even if you’re practicing safe sex.

Ladies the goal is to have him think about you. When you’re on his mind I swear you’ll know it. Guys are not that deep and nor do they over think things often. They’re usually straightforward and territorial, so if he wants you he’s probably watching from a distance similar to a lion and his prey. I bet he wants to pounce all over you, but if he’s a man (i.e. not a boy) he’s respectful only if you are to yourself first. You teach him how to treat you. A true lady doesn’t have to say it because she shows it. Most importantly she knows how to handle90 day sex rule her business behind closed doors with little assumptions by others.

You’re probably wondering when is the right time, right? Well it’s all based on what you want with him. If this is someone you’re getting to know and see great potential in definitely wait after a few dates. Be sure to have consistent communication. Men carry a shorter attention span than women and if he’s not really interested time will tell on him. Now if he’s just a play toy then why wait? Disclose what it is in the beginning (i.e. talk about it) so emotions are checking at the door, bring your protection, water based lubricant, and any other goodies you plan on using!


Suggested Guidelines…

1.)    Don’t talk about sex or use any sexual innuendo no sooner than date three. Even if he texts subliminal messages play it down, laugh it off, and shift the conversation.

2.)    Have you’re ego and confidence in check before spreading anything and I do mean anything!

3.)    Be honest and discuss each other’s sexual history.

4.)    Share pleasures and make sure your needs are met too.

5.)    Most importantly protect thyself and have fun!

As a New Jersey native it came as no surprise when Sebastien, birthed a knack for talking and writing. During his college days the young blogger gained experience through international talkers such as The Maury Show and The Mo’nique Show. After years of interning and assisting the aspiring journalist threw caution to the wind and launched TheGayBestie.com. The lifestyle and culture website provides a different spin on love, sex, relationships, and fashion. #TGB focuses on the 21st Century woman and her loyal companion, other known as the gay bestie. Readers will find discussions that are usually held behind closed doors placed in the forefront to totally meet the needs of all. No, topic is ever off limits. So ladies brace yourselves because Sebastien is taking you places where you’ll be sure to blush and share a laugh! He’s giving exactly what’s been missing. Grab you’re favorite beverage (i.e. red wine), sit back, and prepare to gab about this with your girlfriends the minute you see them.
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