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Have you ever experienced love at first sight? Have you ever been swept off your feet? Have you ever had your clothes romanced off? Has anyone made you feel like time stopped for them to adore you? Have you ever felt your heart beat out of your chest? Well then, you’ve met a sociopath.
Unfortunately, we all know one… What I don’t wish on anyone is falling in love with one…
If you’ve felt like this relationship feels like it’s too good to be true? Then it probably is…
In my experience, our initial interaction was wonderful. He sought me out; he expressed his desire to date and get to know me. When I finally gave in, he was nothing less than a gentleman, or at least it seemed…As our relationship progressed, I began to see little cracks in his stories. I began to see the “family man” that he claimed to be was an insecure boy unable to be responsible for his actions.
As time progressed and the stories evolved, he thought he was a part of a secret assassin group recruited for the US Government. He went under the name “Able Assassin”; he’d say he’d be out of the country on secret missions… Come to find out they were so secret that no one else knew about them. He’d been married twice, and at the time he was still married but forgot to share that information, he said he wasn’t even aware-really? So you weren’t sure if you got a divorce, seriously? He’d fathered five children, three in marriage, and one by accident with a minor before his first marriage. The last known child was born out of his Ex’s mother’s wish of a grandchild… So he was there to fulfill her wishes but he signed off his rights’ to parent this child.
I don’t judge anyone for having a bunch of kids, but I do ask that you be in the position emotionally, spiritually and financially to raise them. I mean by the time I’d heard everything it was easy to walk away from this circus act. He was always lying about one thing or another…
Please recognize the signs sooner than later, and remember go with your gut, that sixth sense is real!!! Here are some things to look for:
~Lack of remorse (guilt)
~Short-term marital relationships
~Cunning and manipulative
~Grandiose estimation of self
~Needs constant stimulation
~Failure to accept responsibility for their own actions (blames others)
~Lack of long term goals
~Not realistic/lives in fantasy
Don’t beat yourself up when you realize you were fooled, even psychologists have been fooled. Sociopaths (psychopaths) tell stories that are convincing down to the detail and rarely have a grain of truth in them. Forearmed is forewarned, you have to decide that this is a downward spiral and you’re gonna do whatever it takes to get out! This task is not for the faint at heart! Be strong and get gone, no explanation necessary… You’ll be sucked right back in…
“Love Still Exist”