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Most guys that meet a female that they are attracted to are hoping to advance to the next level of position and by that I mean horizontal, vertical whatever. The most killing point of this notion for us men is to hear the “Let’s just be friends speech”. Oh the devastation this causes to a man’s psyche. You meet a female that you are interested in and then you are lucky enough to have that first date, man you are thinking “yeah this is going to be nice”. Then it happens the friend zone speech.
The Hopeful: You know I would really like to see you again you know and just see where this goes. So what do you think?
The Unconquerable: You know I had a nice time but I’m just not feeling you that way so how about we just be friends.
YOU HAVE JUST BEEN PLACED IN THE FRIEND ZONE!
Now when a guy hears this it’s like an echo and in his mind he’s thinking Oh G**Damn! It’s over right? Not a chance in hell. Well here’s the thing with men, we will do this just on the premise that we might get in.
We still think we have a shot so we will accept a woman’s challenge of being in the friend zone but you best understand this man will give it a go at trying to be your friend but his intent is be your lover. That’s for real.
Hey ladies, we will wait until that moment of weakness when you need a friend someone that’ll have a shoulder you can cry on and then we will be there with draws blazing. You best believe that.
So just for argument sake
Can you have a male friend ladies? Sure you can if he’s gay. Naw but for real you can as long as the sexual quest was never there but that’s seldom the case. Most guys have already thought about how many ways they would like to do you before they say hello to you.
You seriously best believe that he will kick down the door of the friend zone if he thinks he has a chance at getting with you.
So what about the other percent?
These would have to be men that are as I said:
(These men also must come with some moral compass for not crossing the friend zone line).
Seriously though people we are adults and as such it should not be impossible to think folks of the opposite sex can just be friends, right?
We have the ability to sensible and portray the proper conduct when socializing with one another. It should be fine. A Man can have a relationship with a woman without wanting to have sex with her.
Ya’ll know I’m just messing with ya’ll right?
Do you think friends of the opposite sex could become lovers? I’ll put it to you like this; ask your male friend this question. If it was open to you and I being intimate would you be up for it? Now take a quick glance down at his pants.
Chances are he already has.