Hot Topic Tuesday: Love Or Sex – What Are You Looking For?

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Would you marry the last person you slept with??? Why??? Why not???

We tend to date and have many “casual” sexual relationships throughout our lives. With that said, how many “casual” relationships does it take? I think one question will curb your appetite from being so promiscuous:


love or sexThe answer to that question will help you put your life into perspective. If you would marry the person, are you engaged? Have you discussed marriage with this person? Why aren’t you on your way to the alter?

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If you wouldn’t have married them, then what does this say about you? Do you share your body with anyone? Does casual sex leave you fulfilled? If not what is it that’s missing from your life that motivates you to casual sex? Can you have sex with people without emotional ties? If so.. How???

Tell me your experience in this area, LOVE, SEX or MONEY???

The DivorcedDiva

“Luv Still Exist”

Happily divorced mother of one. I date when I find a worthy partner. I love to talk about relationships, work through problems with people and remind them of their options. I'm very open and willing to share all of my experiences to help others.


  1. Andrea

    July 9, 2013 at 6:52 pm

    I happen to be married to the last person I slept with but I must admit that there have definitely been times (long, long ago) when I regretted sleeping with someone. I never cringed from thinking “I would never marry dude,” but I found it quite cringe worthy to think, “What if I had a child with this loser.” That is scary!

    • Ms. Nix

      July 9, 2013 at 7:04 pm

      It can be Russian Roulette and I am so glad things worked out for you. In most cases, it can be a real risk and more often than not things do not turn out for the positive. I wish you much happiness and continued success.

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