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Isn’t every good relationship built on trust, friendship and love? So when real life kicks in and you’re past all the “niceties” of a new relationship, there will be a couple of things that find their way to irritate you… But you can’t fight every battle, choose wisely… So I choose to “discuss” an issue that doesn’t sit so well with me… My Man’s Best Friend is a single woman… Before you go there, yes I trust him! Don’t go there! A better question is do I trust her, right? Well, I don’t. I don’t know her like that, and I’m not going to be undermined by anyone, not him, not his momma or his BESTIE! We women know exactly the right “tools” to use to be the Master Manipulators we are (yes Ladies, accept it), so I definitely don’t want someone who thinks she’s “allowed” to manipulate him. They hang out at the house, at the sports bar and some group functions amongst their mutual friends. I’m always invited, and I go to many of the functions, but I don’t understand why she doesn’t have her own man. And yes, I asked if they’d ever been intimate, the answer is NO… Nevertheless, I don’t like her so close… I personally feel like all relationships need to be “protected” to grow. I really don’t think he’d be so comfortable with me having a single man as my best friend for that matter…
So how many of your mates have a “BEST FRIEND” of the opposite sex?
Do you get jealous of their closeness? Does it bother you when they have “insider” jokes/comments? Do you allow/tolerate your spouse to have an opposite sex “BESTIE”??? I pose these questions because this situation is becoming more and more popular… Most people give a quick response of being “insecure”, but knowing the days and times in which we live it’s not a farfetched idea to have more than one lover. Today we are faced with married couples “swinging” and hosting orgies, so then what do we expect “single” people to do?
LOVE STILL EXISTS – The DivorcedDiva