MEN-ogamy= Monogamy

Not only does the milkshake bring the boys to the yard, so does monogamy. Truthfully, men can be a tad confusing, which is no secret, but this one really takes the cake. Isn’t it funny when you’re feeling lonely there seems to be no men available? Then once you’re in a relationship the buddies want to come from all directions. It almost feels like you’re wearing a new scent and their attraction starts to heighten. As you may know already men want what they can’t have which causes that fierce intrigue. That’s the easy part, but what happens when you share the attraction and begins to play with the flames of fire?love_triangle_by_iann7

Right, now that’s where the dilemma begins. Temptation is the true bitch opposed to karma if you ask me. Karma simply treats you the way you want to be treated. Now as for temptation she tiptoes around you unexpectedly and fearlessly. The feeling is alluring and captivating, but yet however you treat temptation karma is still watching. The key is to stay conscious in every decision although it is extremely hard. I know sometimes you want to a rebel and just embrace the moment of whatever you’re feeling. When you were single that was cool and now that you’re a committed woman the story has changed. Entertaining a “buddy” while in a monogamous relationship only leads to untapped layers of insecurities.


What I’ve learned along the way is that any form of love gets attacked from all directions. It usually starts with unsolicited opinions and comments. Then followed by those attempting to interfere. Your position is to stay true to yourself and that gut feeling. Honor how you feel in your relationship and voice any needs and wants. If you’re not comfortable enough to be heard in your current situation then why are you still in it? All relationships are about give and take, but in no way does that mean losing yourself in the midst of it.

Remember, love always prevails in the end!

As a New Jersey native it came as no surprise when Sebastien, birthed a knack for talking and writing. During his college days the young blogger gained experience through international talkers such as The Maury Show and The Mo’nique Show. After years of interning and assisting the aspiring journalist threw caution to the wind and launched The lifestyle and culture website provides a different spin on love, sex, relationships, and fashion. #TGB focuses on the 21st Century woman and her loyal companion, other known as the gay bestie. Readers will find discussions that are usually held behind closed doors placed in the forefront to totally meet the needs of all. No, topic is ever off limits. So ladies brace yourselves because Sebastien is taking you places where you’ll be sure to blush and share a laugh! He’s giving exactly what’s been missing. Grab you’re favorite beverage (i.e. red wine), sit back, and prepare to gab about this with your girlfriends the minute you see them.
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