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So, you found your man, you love him and he loves you, right? I would think so, especially since you’ve been living together for the last three years. (I know, you think I’m mad because I’m not in a relationship, but really I’m trying to look out for you. I know how hard it is to see everything from the inside of a situation). So you have  your “happy ever after,” right? NOT! Now you’re shacked up with MISTA RIGHT and you just had his baby six months ago and you’re still not engaged. Well, I guess you should feel “lucky” that you’re still together, right? I guess that if you leave things as they are and don’t push him too far, everything will be fine. What are you afraid of? Him leaving you and the baby? Well if he’s going to leave you, believe me he’s going to do that anyway, it doesn’t take much.

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You’ve got to reclaim your power as a woman, don’t misunderstand what I’m saying. I don’t mean it arrogantly, I mean out of respect; you have lived together, played house and now you have a baby, where is the commitment? If you were afraid to ask before, don’t be now, for your child’s sake find out where you fit in his life. If a child is not a serious commitment then what is his opinion on marriage? You are now the mother of his child, his confidant, his lover, his friend, his strength, his cook, his maid, hell the only thing you don’t do is make his clothes and cut his hair (maybe)! You’d better figure out where you are going, a man knows exactly what he wants, and he knows what to do in order to get it and what he needs to do in order to keep it, don’t let him fool you. Respect yourself enough to know you’re worth more than being a “common law” wife.

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Woman know your worth and make sure that the man you share your life with understands your value and he is committed to you that he is willing to fight for you. LOVE will protect you, it will be concerned about your well-being spiritually, emotionally, physically and financially. If you don’t believe me chat with some older men, men who have carried their house hold into retirement, they’ll tell you how a MAN will conduct himself. Don’t sell yourself short, remember that even a lease is a contractual agreement, but make sure there is an option and a time frame in which to “buy”.

The DivorcedDiva

“Love Still Exist”

Happily divorced mother of one. I date when I find a worthy partner. I love to talk about relationships, work through problems with people and remind them of their options. I'm very open and willing to share all of my experiences to help others.
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